TO PARENTS, AUNTS AND UNCLES, BROTHERS AND SISTERS!

 

There are so many leaders, who allow them to go deep into their hearts and inner worlds with openness, acceptance after a period of defense and sharing to come after that… feeling emotional breakdown.  They themselves are hurt a lot in the process that they grow up, develop spiritually, intellectually, and especially emotionally.  There are moments…  They are alone in their own business. They are alone in their own families just because they follow outdated and unsuitable standards just to show respect for the person who gave birth to and raised them.

 

Our founders are also because of these injuries in many ways that develop and grow up to become a leader with many scars in their hearts, they are also the motivations for them to prove themselves, but also have their own strengths. This energy treats everyone around. 

There are leaders who find it difficult to empathize and love because they have not felt it in the process of growing up, being imposed with outdated standards, some torture of the soul and emotional violence. So much so that if you compare them to physical violence, it’s nothing compared to their pain over the years. 

They grow, form, accumulate and they have 2 choices: 

a) Leave it and cause harm to everyone around.

b) Go help others, because when they help others, they receive love to use this energy to heal their own wounds. 

 

Everyone says EQ is more important than IQ, but it’s difficult for them when they still live in an environment full of scrutiny, discrimination, scrutiny, judgment, and satire. 

They are suppressed, imposed and become lonely in their own aura of money, the social position they strive for, but once achieved, they do not become fully happy the way they wanted to start.

They can achieve their goals, can be proud, can hold their heads high to everyone around them about their achievements in silence or can also boast just enough, each year there are more achievements to flex but the pain, the environment, the relationship is still the same, nothing has changed and is still hurting them every day. 

Living like that, how can they heal themselves if their inner strength and faith are not strong enough, just one look, one content, one judgment, one picture can make them fall.

 

 

The expensive picture above has shown us that, if we do not build a connection, an environment, especially a business environment, a social network environment, friends, family and the people around us are more loving and positive energy, we will become full of anger, resentment, ugliness and react to them by exuding negativity and demanding recognition every day, but the more run after recognition … the less happy they are. 

Then we ourselves run to standards that when we achieve, we do not feel complete, happy and complete. 

Fortunately, they feel safe with us and allow us to listen, share their similar pain, and together we find a solution so that we can live moments of love, understanding, be more empathetic and happy.

At least feel no regrets for what I have done, decided, enthusiastic, dedicated and never stop to develop mentally, intellectually and become a better version in the future. 

 

Please, be careful with judgment, it can destroy a person, it can also make a great leader, but it is full of scars in soul and emotion. 

Love and exchange more. 

In the age of social networks, everyone is attached to the phone, having fun alone, laughing alone and after putting down the phone with likes and comments, we don’t have moments to share, communicate and deeply talk. 

Even to those who seem to be … next to and closest to … you.